Viewing

Some people find it helpful to spend time with their loved one before the funeral.  This special time is an opportunity to say goodbye, and begin to bring some closure to the relationship.

A viewing can assist in the grieving process as it allows people to begin to accept the reality of the death of their loved one.  It can be a time to place mementos such as cards, letters, small gifts, photos, flowers and other significant objects in the coffin with the person.

Children benefit from being included in the preparations for a funeral.  Viewing the body of someone they love who has died can be a positive experience, as it allows the child to say ‘goodbye’ and helps him or her to accept the reality of death.

Children should have the same opportunity to view the deceased person and be allowed to attend the funeral if they want to.